Making Friends and Influencing People

In today’s volatile, fast shifting market, we may do well taking a leave from the lessons ditched out by Dale Carnegie. 73 years ago, Carnegie wrote the book that remains in the reading list of many business schools today. In a world of management books, self-help guides and bestsellers, ‘How to Win Friends and Influence People’ has undoubtedly achieved lasting reverence.

Even as we move towards greater automation as a profession, and increasingly adopting various metrics in every aspect of people management, the need for HR professionals to be emotionally connected is greater than ever.

Whilst the HR profession started off with the management of labour and unions, we have evolved into a complex profession with numerous specialisations. As complexity increases, and demand on our time and knowledge increases, sometimes our ability to connect with others decreases. Like it or otherwise, our focus has been moving away from staff welfare to HR strategies. As we align our goals and processes with those of the company, we tend to move away from those of the employees. This is not a study in right or wrong, but it certainly is important to remember that at the core of our profession are the talents that make up the company.

A renowned professor in HR used to tell me that if you get your systems right, HR as a practice is as duplicable as say, purchasing or finance. He is not alone. After all, isn’t all the current fad for HR measurements and KPIs is about dispassionately standardizing processes and breaking our job down into measurable components? In fact, the higher we move up the ladder and the more time we spend interacting with top management and shareholders, the less contact we have with front line employees and customers. The net effect is the dulling of our ability to make friends and influence people.

I’m afraid as a profession we are losing our moral rights and our raison d’être in our quest for better measurability and aligning our activities to the bottom line. So powerful is the call for measurability and so pervasive is the need for KPIs, that we are drifting towards the realm of accountants and investment analysts – where numbers rule supreme.

Many of us know deep down that people matters. But if we are to honestly measure the amount of time and effort we put as part of our day to day task to think for employees rather than the management, then we will come to a realisation: that the need to meet corporate objectives have taken over. What happened to our role as arbitrator between the employees (labour) and the management (owners)? Once upon a time, HR professionals were also union leaders! Unbelievable, right?

You have the power to effect change. To many, it’s moving backwards to non-measurability and management by gut feeling. But consider this: true HR professionals feel, not think. It’s time we let our hearts rule again.

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This is my editor's message for HR Asia Issue 4. Get a copy of Asia's most authoritative publication for HR professionals at your nearest bookstore or email chro@hrasiamedia.com.